Personalized ceremonies
A fully bespoke ceremony built from your story, your humour, and the moments that matter most.
Toronto & GTA Wedding Officiant
Get married by the Modern Nun — your way.
No stiff scripts. No awkward pauses. Just Rev. Charity Adams — the calm, warm presence keeping your ceremony moving, meaningful, and unmistakably you.
Loved by couples across the GTA
Available 2026 ✦
FREECONSULT
What I offer
Ceremonies for every kind of love
Big or tiny, traditional or wildly untraditional — every ceremony is written around you, never copy-pasted.
Elopements
Just the two of you (and maybe a witness). Effortless, intimate, and beautifully official.
Intimate ceremonies
Small guest lists, big feelings. A warm, relaxed ceremony for your closest people.
Civil ceremonies
Legally married, beautifully simple — all the paperwork handled so you can just be present.
Why Charity
The calm in the room
I'm Reverend Charity Adams — the Modern Nun. I keep things intentional but relaxed, so your ceremony feels natural and effortless instead of scripted and stiff. My job is to hold the energy, keep things flowing, and let you stay fully present for the best part of your day.
- Ceremonies written specifically for you — never templated
- Calm, grounded presence that keeps the day moving
- Inclusive & welcoming of every couple
- Serving Toronto & the entire GTA
How it works
Three easy steps to "I do"
From first hello to your final kiss — here's how simple booking the Modern Nun really is.
01
Reach out
Send a quick note with your date and vibe. I'll get back to you fast — no pressure, no obligation.
02
Free consultation
We chat about your story and what you want your ceremony to feel like, then I craft it around you.
03
Your ceremony, your way
I show up calm and prepared so you can be fully present while we make it official.
“Charity was one of the best parts of our wedding.”— C. Hauck
Book a free consult
Let's make it official
Tell me a little about your day and I'll be in touch within 48 hours. No scripts, no pressure — just a friendly chat.